Life is fleeting, constantly changing and nothing here in this world is permanent. Nothing lasts forever, including our own lives hence there is no point of ownership, for everything comes to an end and how hard you may try you cannot hold on to things and lives, including of your dear ones'.
A few personal losses made me realize the true nature of life and the futility of running after material things!
Time just flies and it's like in a blink of an eyelid an entire era passes.
Bhai, my younger sibling passed away last June, and it's like so soon it has been an year of being without him. The day before we held the annual rituals for him, praying for his peaceful life in the other world for him. It's difficult to think of your younger sibling not being there and all the memories cloud up in the form of unshed tears in your eyes, for you need to be strong and show to your family above that you are managing okay!
He was a simpleton. More loved or cared by our parents probably because of his health and also his simplicity. His world involved plants, birds and animals, who kept coming back to look for him for day after day after he left this world 🌎
How I wish I understood him more, spoke with him more and could spend some more time with him!
Love and respect your relationships till they last. Hold no grudges, no anger because you never know when the other person leaves and you are left behind with regrets and sadness.
What exists now may not be there tomorrow.
Appreciate the present moment and understand the cyclical nature of life and death. One who comes has to go. You have to vacate the seat for someone else 😊
Live fully, love all, don't entertain any bitterness, focus on spiritual insights.
And don't hold those emotions. Share that hug , embrace them tight , love easily and freely without inhibitions kunki kya pata kal ho naa ho ! Who knows if there will be a tomorrow!
Be at peace my dear brother. You were a gem I recognized much later!
©®Madhumita
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